It is hard to get into a great relationship and it is especially hard to keep that relationship floating. There a lot of people out there who are looking just for their own good and never think about the others and how it might affect them while playing with their hearts. Being a player usually implies hurting people and without being bias, most of the times the men are those who do it.
So, in order to avoid having your heart broken again, let’s look at some reasons for why men do actually play with your feelings:
Good for their ego
Men usually play with women’s hearts because it makes them feel good about themselves. This thing is going to inflate their ego and make them feel like they are much bigger men. This is obviously a stupid reason but it is the first reason for which men tend to do that. They need to boast to their friends about the fact that they just have a conquest and they just left it at that. This will help them feel better about themselves.
So they can get praised
By hurting someone, by cheating or ghosting a woman, most men feel that they have made a conquest and they have something to get praised for. Usually, most men like to tell their friends about what they succeeded in doing and how they succeeded in gaining the trust of a certain woman and then left her just like that. Usually, between men this is something that they feed on. They like to have a laugh and crack jokes about it. This would make them feel like the alpha male of the pack.
They are afraid to commit
Not all men are looking for a relationship. There are some out there that look just for the fun of it. They like to get the women and then leave them and never look back. This is because most of these men are afraid of commitment. Most of the time this is either a psychological thing or something that means that they might be afraid to learn about a new person and that they might be losing something better. They do not understand that not always the grass is greener on the other side.
Because it simply works
Most men will decide to break your heart and leave you hanging because it simply works. You are too good and you leave too much from yourself and so men tend to take you for granted. That is why it is best when starting dating to make things clear. When you realize that your relationship is going on a downward spiral and that the man starts ignoring you, it is very obvious that he might actually be interested in something for long term. This is the moment you need to take the decision and cut it. Do not let the man take advantage of you that way and you will be happier.